Understand that the greater part of your misery or unhappiness is determined not by your circumstances, but by your attitude. In every situation, YOU choose your attitude.īe determined to be positive. Come from a mindset of peace and acceptance, and you can deal with almost anything and grow beyond it. Letting go of needless expectations is your first step to happiness. The biggest disappointments in our lives are often the result of misplaced expectations. Honestly, life is too short to spend at war with yourself. It means to be in the midst of those things while remaining calm in your heart. And remember, finding peace in life does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, no challenges, and no hard work. Either it will give you what you want or it will teach you what the next step is. Life spins with unexpected changes so instead of avoiding it, take every change and experience as a challenge for growth. It’s all about accepting the reality of what is. It’s not easy, but it’s worth it in the end.
When you apply what you’re learning to your future choices and actions, you move forward not backward. The key is using your experiences to grow. So remember that everyone suffers in life at some point. But each time what I found was more incredible than the last. I can tell you from my own life experience that I’ve found love, lost it, found it, lost it and then I found it once again. But you know what’s even scarier? Regret. Making a big life change is pretty scary. The second step is leaving the life you don’t want. Realizing you are lost is the first step to living the life you want. Not until you are lost in this world can you begin to find your best path. You have to be a little lost first to find what you’re looking for. (Read Quiet: The Power of Introverts.) 3. So you’d better learn the sound of it, otherwise you’ll never understand what it’s telling you. And the truth is, throughout your life there will be times when the world gets real quiet and the only thing left is the beat of your own heart. We need solitude, because when we’re alone we’re detached from obligations, we don’t need to put on a show, and we can hear our own thoughts and feel what our intuition is telling us. In other words, the moments you feel lonely are the moments you may most need to be by yourself.
#I wanna be alone with you if that makes sense free
Sometimes you need to be alone, not to be lonely, but to enjoy a little free time just being yourself and finding your way. Sometimes when you’re lonely, you need to be alone. Perhaps you can’t immediately talk to them, but they are out there, and that’s all you need to know right now. There’s always someone who can relate to you. When you hear yourself say, “I am all alone,” it’s just your worried mind trying to sell you a lie. So no matter how embarrassed or pathetic you feel about your own situation, know that there are others out there experiencing the same emotions.
So many of us are fighting the same exact battle alongside you. Here are some things to keep in mind when you feel lost and alone: It gives us an opportunity to discover who we really are and what life is all about. It’s good for us to spend time exploring unknowns, alone. The more I’ve experienced and explored my own feelings of uncertainty and loneliness, the more I’ve realized how necessary these feelings are. Why? Was the planet put here just to nourish our loneliness? Why do people have to feel this way? What’s the point of it all? Millions of people in this world, all of them craving connection, and looking for specific experiences and people to satisfy them, yet inadvertently isolating themselves in the process. However, the rest of Ella’s email further described her ongoing struggle with feeling “lost and alone” in life. It made me smile because I love when life delivers seemingly coincidental, positive messages like that, right when we need them most. That’s the opening paragraph of an email I received today from a reader named Ella. A few seconds later, at the exact moment the chorus began, I passed a huge billboard sign with big black letters that read, ‘YOU ARE NOT ALONE!’” I turned on the radio and the Michael Jackson song ‘You Are Not Alone’ was playing. “This morning I felt lost and alone as I was driving home after a brutal breakup with my boyfriend. Sometimes it felt good, but it never felt right.”
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